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Shared Parenting News.

The posts below are a selection of the most recent shared parenting news. To view our blog , which has been discontinued and archived, please visit our Blog Archive.

How Adversarial Divorce Contributes to Increased Parental Estrangement in the United States
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How Adversarial Divorce Contributes to Increased Parental Estrangement in the United States

As National Parents Organization focuses on shared parenting awareness and advocacy nationwide, we want to highlight another issue that is plaguing American families. Parental estrangement is a complex topic which has recently gained traction due to several articles and essays that were published over the past year. These impactful pieces in the New York Times, the Atlantic, and Aeon share information about parental estrangement and its link to alienation, divorce, and mental health. We, as a shared parenting support organization, believe that it’s important to shed light on how adversarial and high-conflict divorce can unfortunately contribute to estrangement – especially when child custody and contentious court battles are involved in the divorce process.

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NPO Collaborates with PASG to Challenge Flawed Research
Don Hubin Don Hubin

NPO Collaborates with PASG to Challenge Flawed Research

National Parents Organization is collaborating with the Parental Alienation Study Group (PASG) to call for the retraction of badly flawed research denying the scientific research on parental alienation.

Parental alienation is a serious form of psychological abuse that causes enormous harm to the children and parents victimized by it. More than 1,000 books, book chapters, and peer-reviewed articles have been published on the topic and there is increasing scientific recognition of the existence, causes, and effects of parental alienation. It has been the subject of documentary films, such as Erasing Family, produced and directed by Ginger Gentile.

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Senate Passes Child Support Bill to Promote Parenting Time Agreements
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Senate Passes Child Support Bill to Promote Parenting Time Agreements

On July 27, by a voice vote, the Senate took action to address a long-standing problem in the child support system. Senate Bill 503 PARENTS Act of 2021, sponsored by Senator John Cornyn (R-TX) and co-sponsored by Senators Bob Menendez (D-NJ) and Ben Cardin (D-MD) expands the use of federal incentive payments to states to:

develop, implement, and evaluate procedures for establishing a parenting time agreement when establishing an initial or modified child support order or a medical support order (including procedures for carrying out a parenting time agreement made prior to the establishment or modification of any such order).

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Shared Parenting Makes a Summer Splash in Several States
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Shared Parenting Makes a Summer Splash in Several States

(July 14, 2021) - There is major progress for shared parenting and equal parenting rights across America with help from National Parents Organization (NPO) and its state chapters nationwide. While the organization is excited about recent success stories, NPO leaders acknowledge that work still needs to be done in most states across America. This includes presenting more bills to lawmakers, gaining the support of elected officials, and getting them passed by the legislature.

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Introducing the NPO Advisory Council
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Introducing the NPO Advisory Council

National Parents Organization is proud to announce the formation of the NPO Advisory Council. NPO employs a research-based approach to activism to reform the norms of separated parenting so that no child is deprived of a full relationship with both parents simply because the parents are not living together.

‘Research-based activism’ has two elements and our Advisory Council reflects both of these. In addition to world-leading researchers on child well-being, parental alienation, domestic violence, and child support, the Advisory Council also includes noted individuals to guide NPO to be more effective in its advocacy.

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Happy Father’s Day
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Happy Father’s Day

National Parents Organization wishes all fathers, everywhere, a happy Father’s Day. And we extend our sympathy to those fathers for whom this is a sad day because they have been wrongly excluded from their children’s lives.

Last year I wrote about the history of Father’s Day in the United States. It’s a longer and more interesting history than I’d realized before I started reading up on it. This year, I wanted to say a few words about Father’s Day around the world.

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Wear Your Support for NPO and Shared Parenting on Your Sleeve
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Wear Your Support for NPO and Shared Parenting on Your Sleeve

Well, not on your sleeve exactly. But you can wear your support for NPO and shared parenting on your t-shirt, or tank top, or your hoodie. You can display it on a coffee mug, a tote, or a pin.

NPO is proud to announce the opening of its merchandise store on TeePublic featuring these and many other items displaying the NPO logo or declaration of support for shared parenting. Of course you can purchase items that say ‘I Support Shared Parenting’. But you can also purchase merchandise with declarations of support for shared parenting that identify your relation to it: ‘Moms Support Shared Parenting’, ‘Dads Support Shared Parenting’, ‘Grandparents Support Shared Parenting’, and so forth.

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Missouri 2021 Update
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Missouri 2021 Update

May 18, 2021 by Linda Reutzel, Chair, National Parents Organization of Missouri

Against the backdrop of an unusual punctation point to a contentious session, the Missouri Senate Minority Leader pulled the plug with an amendment to end debate early on the last day of session, after voicing concerns over broken promises and deals that were not kept with members of the majority party. While family law reforms including shared parenting and maintenance legislation were on the Senate Floor the Monday of the last week of session in an amendment offered by Senator Bill Eigel, the Junior Senator from St. Charles, they did not cross the finish line. Apparently the deal not to allow a simple change in family law by creating a presumption of equal shared parenting and streamlining maintenance orders, held strong.

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Governor Ducey Declares April 26th Arizona Shared Parenting Day
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Governor Ducey Declares April 26th Arizona Shared Parenting Day

Arizona Becomes Third State to Officially Proclaim Shared Parenting Day

Thanks to Governor Doug Ducey, Arizona just became the third state to honor shared parenting arrangements by proclaiming April 26th as Shared Parenting Day. The Governor’s proclamation acknowledges that children are our nation’s “most important asset”. Further, the proclamation states that children “benefit greatly when they have a relationship with both parents, if the parents are fit caregivers.”

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Separating the Wheat from the Chaff on Parental Alienation Research
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Separating the Wheat from the Chaff on Parental Alienation Research

It can be hard for those who aren’t scientists to separate good scientific research from bad research or even from pseudoscientific writing. This is true in the area of research on parental alienation as much as, and maybe more than, in other areas.

That is unfortunate because severe alienating behaviors are child abuse, a form of coercive control that is extremely damaging to children and to the targeted parent. This makes it all the more important to separate sound from shoddy research.

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Governor Baker Declares April 26 Massachusetts Shared Parenting Day
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Governor Baker Declares April 26 Massachusetts Shared Parenting Day

The focus of National Parents Organization is on reforming laws to give every child the benefit of having both parents even when those parents are living apart. Gaining greater awareness that shared parenting is best for kids helps convince lawmakers that their constituents want shared parenting to be the default after divorce or separation, which makes them more likely to vote for shared parenting bills when they come before state legislatures. That’s why we’re glad to announce that Massachusetts’ Governor Baker issued a proclamation declaring April 26 Shared Parenting Day. The proclamation recognizes both that “Research indicates that children benefit greatly when they have a relationship with both parents if the parents are fit caregivers” and that “Declaring a statewide day honoring shared parenting will encourage children’s access to both parents.” Massachusetts is the state where National Parents Organization was founded, so this effort is a culmination of many years of NPO activism in the state.

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A Day to Celebrate
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A Day to Celebrate

April 26, 2021 by Matt Hale

April 26th is truly a day to celebrate. It is Shared Parenting Day not just for shared parenting supporters but families across our great nation. Children need both parents and we should celebrate when they have both of their caregivers in their lives.

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Announcing Shared Parenting News
Don Hubin Don Hubin

Announcing Shared Parenting News

April 22, 2021

National Parents Organization is pleased to announce the launch of Shared Parenting News.

For many years, NPO has sponsored the NPO Blog, a platform for the expression of opinions on matters of interest to our readers. We are moving to the new platform, Shared Parenting News, which will focus on communicating important news and keeping readers apprised of developments related to NPO’s mission to “improve the lives of children & strengthen society by protecting every child's right to the love & care of both parents after separation or divorce.”

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Arkansas SB18 Becomes Law!
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Arkansas SB18 Becomes Law!

April 7, 2021 by Patrick Fraley, MD

On April 7, 2021, Arkansas became the second state in the nation to pass a law for a rebuttable presumption of joint custody, defined as equal parenting time. Not only that, but we became the first to require clear and convincing evidence to overcome the presumption. SB18 passed the House with a vote of 71-16 and the Senate 33-2, and gave us the strongest joint custody law in the country. Much of this success was due to the unrelenting work by our team and sponsors. However, I hope it also signals optimism toward joint custody legislation and a positive sign of things to come.

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NPO Resources on Parental Alienation
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NPO Resources on Parental Alienation

February 17, 2021 by Don Hubin, Ph.D., Chair, National Board of Directors

Using children as a weapon in divorce battles is horrible. Unfortunately, it’s more common than many people think. Many divorces and separations are accompanied by some stray negative comments from one parent about the other either overheard by the children or directed to them. In some cases, though, one parent engages in a systematic campaign of denigration against the other parent—a campaign aimed at alienating the children from the targeted parent.

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Illinois HB620
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Illinois HB620

February 15, 2020 by Zack Teague, Chair, National Parents Organization of Illinois

For many years now, as most Illinoisians are aware, Representative Ford, a democrat from the 8th district, has sponsored bills attempting to amend the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act. The 102nd General Assembly is no exception. This legislative season Representative Ford presents House Bill-620. Perhaps the least adversarial language that can arrive on the Governor's desk. A review of the Current Law and the Proposed Amendments proves that if this bill passes it will be one small step in the right direction to put an end to Illinois law depriving children of one of their parents.

Let's look at what the new law would look like upon passage of HB-620.

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Equal Shared Parenting: the Science Supports It; the Public Want It
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Equal Shared Parenting: the Science Supports It; the Public Want It

February 4, 2021 by Don Hubin, Ph.D., Chair, National Board of Directors

It’s not unusual. Once again, the public is way ahead of our legislators, who are too often held back by the demands of special interests to which they are beholden.

Regular readers of the NPO Blog know that there is a strong scientific consensus that substantially equal shared parenting is, in the vast majority of cases, in children’s best interest. And, regular readers will recall, too, that NPO has done polling in a number of states that shows, beyond doubt, that the public overwhelmingly favors a legal presumption in favor of shared parenting.

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A Message From the Executive Committee in Illinois
Zack Teague Zack Teague

A Message From the Executive Committee in Illinois

The 102nd General Assembly in the State Of Illinois has begun. Holding its first day of the new session on January 13th, 2021.

Over the years we have presented and provided research-backed model legislation across the country. In Illinois, National Parents Organization has plans to build on our successes and help push for parental rights reforms for both parents.

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Resistance: What Does It Mean and Who’s To Blame: Part II
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Resistance: What Does It Mean and Who’s To Blame: Part II

January 14, 2021 by Kelley A. Baker, PhD, LPC, Forensic Consulting Services

In Part I of this article, I discussed some of the common behaviors of parental alienation and the typical ways in which children react to these behaviors.

It should be expected that parents will make many communication errors, during the divorce process. Recommendations for addressing these problems may include asking the parents to take a co-parenting course, using a co-parenting communication tool, setting up a family calendar for posting children’s appointments and activities, or beginning individual or co-parenting counseling.

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Resistance: What Does It Mean and Who’s To Blame: Part I
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Resistance: What Does It Mean and Who’s To Blame: Part I

January 13, 2021 by Kelley A. Baker, PhD, LPC, Forensic Consulting Services

One of the hallmark signs of an alienated child is their black and white descriptions of their parents, usually referred to as “lack of ambivalence.” Having lost the freedom to have real relationships with both of their parents, they emphatically describe one all good parent and one all bad parent. These kids are stuck in a binary world where the rich complexity of human experience and relationships are forfeited to survive the untenable loyalty bind created by a parent. For a severely alienated child, one parent must be idealized and protected (often referred to as the favored parent) and the other demonized and rejected. This was illustrated in one of my recent interviews:

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